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Kira Stoops's avatar

A feast as ever! Can't wait to dive in further. Must say, in regards to sick wives being left by well husbands...grieve, rage, then enjoy the upgrade. I said what I said.

Being single is a major upgrade to someone who's only with you for what you can do. I truly, deeply, madly loved my single years. And plenty of neighbors and friends filled in where a partner would have been supportive.

Another upgrade: being with someone who loves you in your unwellness (and would love you if you suddenly healthed up, too). Yesterday my (very abled) boyfriend and I schlepped my migraine out for a coffee, sat on our camping couch for a few hours in the sunny bird chirps, made Safe Lunch for the 99th time, napped, he tidied up while I rested, went back outside to watch dogs run around the dog park, and then he cut up a bunch of bell peppers for me for future meals. Both of us considered it a great Saturday.

"Most" people won't be into it; that's fine. You don't want "most" people. Just your people.

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Michael's avatar

I love this newsletter and see many friends here too - Hi Amy! - I most loved the shrimp essay. I sent it over to BlueSky and pinned it in my profile there.

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